I generally don’t believe that there are mistakes. Most of the time we do the best we can and given who we were at the time, what we did was what we felt we had to do. It is easy to look back when you are older, wiser and not under the same stress and second guess yourself, to wish you had made a different choice. You didn’t and that is what you have to live with and go on. I work with people to have self- compassion, the key to healing.